Carl Pavano Faces Bizarre Accusations: What He Allegedly Did to an Ex’s Shampoo

Former New York Yankees pitcher Carl Pavano is facing allegations of abusive behavior from his ex-wife, Alissa Pavano. Legal documents highlight accusations including Carl urinating in shampoo bottles and soiling the bed.

Divorce and Custody Disputes

Carl and Alissa finalized their divorce in December 2025 after 14 years of marriage. The couple is involved in a custody battle over their three children and disagreements over their prenuptial agreement.

The court has been called to their Connecticut home multiple times since 2024. Allegations against Carl include destructive actions and coercive control tactics.

Incidents Reported

Alissa claims Carl's behavior escalated to the point where she no longer felt safe at home. Reports include an incident where Carl allegedly sent a photo showing firearms with a threatening caption.

Additional allegations detail incidents where Carl made living conditions difficult for Alissa by removing clean linens and blocking access to parts of the house.

Legal Proceedings

A hearing regarding a restraining order was initially set but postponed at Alissa's request. Meanwhile, they continue to share custody of their children, with an arrangement that will change once Carl provides a new home for Alissa.

Disagreements persist over their prenuptial agreement, which Alissa argues she was pressured into signing. Carl’s team has until mid-May to respond legally to these claims.